Thanks everybody. This is not really what I had envisioned as the way my career would end, but life happens and all we can do is try to help guide it along the way. In the good words of Mr. Jimmy Buffett, we gotta try to keep it between the buoys.

This is a double edged sword for me....the ratings will help ensure that I have some stability for the remainder of my life, but it also solidifies that I'm injured beyond repair. We need to continue to advocate for eachother to ensure that no airman, soldier, sailor, marine or coasite is ever left behind.
Behlftball: I used a combination of methods to help track my status, all of which I learned from the other here:
1) Your PEBLO and VA MSC are supposed to be your links between yourself and the "system". The PEBLO handles everything PEB, while the VA MSC handles everything VA (including the moment your package is sent to regional VA for ratings...then subsequently sent back to the PEB
2) Ebenefits is the database operated by the VA. Often times, you can gauge if the VA has received an unfit memo/request for ratings by following your package status there. It's not the best tool for this, as it is designed to help you track VA rating process, but you can read a bit between the lines here and there
https://myaccess.dmdc.osd.mil/identitymanagement/authenticate.do?execution=e2s1
3) The VA toll free hotline is also a good tool to help you track your status. Again, this was originally designed to help you track VA status, but (if you get the right operator that is willing to go into the system and give you some good details), you can get a few more pieces of the puzzle. The trick is getting somebody that will help you rather than giving you the typical "contact your PEBLO/MSC" or even reading verbatim what you can already get yourself.
1-800-827-1000 press 0,0,1
4) Contact your local DAV or American Legion to sign them on as your representation. Google Form 21-22 (power of attorney), complete it and bring it in/mail it to them and they will send it to the VA. Once the VA recognizes them as your representation, the DAV/AM Legion will be able to get into the system and give you all the notes, comms, etc. that nobody else will give you. Additionally, they can get a copy of your proposed ratings instead of you having to wait and additional month or two for your 199 to come in to your PEBLO.
5) The last option must be exercised with caution: a phone call to AFPC disabilities section can get you some answers/clues. Be advised, they don't like you calling them directly...but if you are polite and apologetic and state that you aren't getting the info you need and are just trying to learn how the process works....they might give you some info (catch more bees with honey idea). For myself, I was able to find out that the PEB had sent my package to the VA (including dates)....without coming right out and telling me, and after reading so much on the forums here, I knew that this indicated that I was found unfit.
So, as you can see, it is a combination of methods that worked for me. Your experience may differ...just remain persistent, study up on the governing regs and (most importantly) pick through the forums here and read as much as you can handle.