BoardOverAdmin,
Sorry to hear of your problems. While I have some comments, below, I am not clear about your overall situation. More information would be helpful.
I gather you are active duty Air Force. How many years of service do you have? What is your grade?
Have you received a notification from your commander recommending separation? If this has not happened, really, there is nothing currently to "fight."
What is your duty status? Do you have an AF Form 469? If so, what does it states (particularly as to whether or not you need an MEB and/or are coded 37)?
Have you reported this and/or discussed this with your provider and/or your chain of command? Seems to me this, along with your hospitalization, would be cause for an MEB.
Is there any misconduct alleged?
See this reference about Personality Disorder discharge and the requirements for such a discharge:
DoDI 1332.14:
"3. CONVENIENCE OF THE GOVERNMENT:
....(c) Separation on the basis of personality disorder, or other mental disorder not constituting a physical disability, is only authorized only if:
1. A diagnosis by an authorized mental health provider as defined in DoDI 6490.04 (Reference (ki)) utilizing the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (Reference (lj)) and, in accordance with procedures established by the Military Department concerned, concludes that the disorder is so severe that the member’s ability to function effectively in the military environment is significantly impaired.
a. The onset of personality disorder is frequently manifested in the early adult years and may reflect an inability to adapt to the military environment as opposed to an inability to perform the requirements of specific jobs or tasks or both.
b. Observed behavior of specific deficiencies should be documented in appropriate counseling or personnel records. Documentation will include history from supervisors, peers, and others, as necessary to establish that the behavior is persistent, interferes with assignment to or performance of duty, and has continued after the enlisted Service member was counseled and afforded an opportunity to overcome the deficiencies.
2. The enlisted Service member has been formally counseled in writing on deficiencies as reflected in appropriate counseling or personnel records and has been afforded an opportunity to overcome those deficiencies.
3. The enlisted Service member has been counseled in writing on the diagnosis of a personality disorder, or other mental disorder not constituting a physical disability.
4. For enlisted Service members who have served or are currently serving in imminent danger pay areas, a diagnosis of personality disorder or other mental disorder not constituting a physical disability will:
a. Be corroborated by a peer or higher-level mental health professional.
b. Be endorsed by the Surgeon General of the Military Department concerned. c. Address post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and other mental illness comorbidity. Unless found fit for duty by the disability evaluation system, a separation for personality disorder, or other mental disorder not constituting a physical disability, is not authorized if service-related PTSD is also diagnosed."
However, it is not clear to me that anyone has initiated separation based on "personality disorder." From what you have written, it seems the basis is, essentially "Adjustment Disorder."
Again, not sure if any concrete action has been taken.
Need to know more, especially as to your current situation to advise. It is not clear to me whether you have been indentifed and/or are actually undergoing separation process. Or if you are/have been referred to the MEB or PEB.
Need to see or know what separation action is currently happening and if you have been notified or are actually undergoing any separation processing to provide more input.
Hope this helped. Best of luck!
Regards,
Jason