So, my pain management doc referred me for an MEB 2 months ago. She also referred me to an off-post neurosurgeon due to loss of strength in my arms/hands. The surgeon wants to do surgery next week on my neck to restore the strength. I submitted the paperwork for convalescent leave and it was approved by all.
Fast forward to today, I get a phone call from my case manager who tells me that if I have the surgery it will cause my MEB to stop for a year while I recover. I'm already listed as a known loss by my current unit, but still doing all of the work for my replacement. He has even bragged about getting me to do all the work. I'm stressed beyond belief and my strictly physical problems are starting to delve into the realm of mental/emotional distress. I can't concentrate on college, my family, or even much of my work.
I guess that the issue I have is deciding which is the best route. The case manager kind of pegged the situation while we were talking....that I just need a break and the con leave seems to be an easier way to get that break. However, all of the docs agree that the longer I wait to complete the MEB/PEB, the more I will injure my body. I'm on so many meds as it is and I don't sleep, I can't play with my daughter or do any of the things that I enjoy. It's beginning to wear on me.
So, basically, any advice that anyone can offer....this is really just a chance to vent to others that understand/are going through the same thing.
Fast forward to today, I get a phone call from my case manager who tells me that if I have the surgery it will cause my MEB to stop for a year while I recover. I'm already listed as a known loss by my current unit, but still doing all of the work for my replacement. He has even bragged about getting me to do all the work. I'm stressed beyond belief and my strictly physical problems are starting to delve into the realm of mental/emotional distress. I can't concentrate on college, my family, or even much of my work.
I guess that the issue I have is deciding which is the best route. The case manager kind of pegged the situation while we were talking....that I just need a break and the con leave seems to be an easier way to get that break. However, all of the docs agree that the longer I wait to complete the MEB/PEB, the more I will injure my body. I'm on so many meds as it is and I don't sleep, I can't play with my daughter or do any of the things that I enjoy. It's beginning to wear on me.
So, basically, any advice that anyone can offer....this is really just a chance to vent to others that understand/are going through the same thing.