Sometimes it All Works Out

Hi all:

Thank you so much for all the support over the past year. I just wanted to post a note of encouragement that sometimes it all works out. Initial ratings were 60%/90% but they didn't rate the most severe condition.
Filed recon through MEB attorney December 9, and it was completed 4 days later!! By having the attorney connect all the dots for them, the rating went from 60/90 to 100/100 plus SMC. Permanent retirement plus VA Permanent and Total. My daughter asked if this was good - I said it depends - its a fair outcome, but I would trade it for my lungs back any day of the week.

Anyway: lessons learned:
1) Be patient - sometimes you just want to sign and run. Use the process. Think long-term.

2) Document everything. If a doc has an opinion about something, ask them to document it.

3) Don't minimize. Don't whine, but if it affects you, get some help. And they can only help if they know.

4) Know what outcome you want. If you don't know what you want, someone else will decide for you.

5) Inform yourself. The attorney was surprised about what I knew about the process, and the VARR request was a 50/50 effort. I was surprised at the knowledge gaps various "officials" had in the process, and what you don't know can hurt you. This board is a wealth of knowledge and ha served me exceptionally well.

6) Use all the resources available - especially the MEB attorneys. They are the only ones in the process who are formally "on your side".

7) Plan for your future while you wait. The rest of your life is a long time.

8) Friends and Family. Little else matters in the long run.

Didn't mean to sound preachy, but I went through every emotion imaginable during this 16 month process. These are things I learned, forgot and had to relearn. Your list is hopefully better. I plan on sticking around to help where i can, and i also want to see how some of the others issues turn out.

Happy New Year, everyone. Bob
 
Glad to see it worked out, jealous over the short timeline, but glad it worked out. I truly wish you the best in future endeavors. You hit the nail on the head with the friends and family remark, My wife often says she would rather live in a box with me, than in a mansion without me, and I believe she is telling the truth. We may never get back the time we volunteered away in service to our country, we may never truly get "compensated" for what we have lost and given up and some things just cannot be covered with a check or a benefit or anything really, but what we can do, is to put forth the effort and the time in our retirement even if "broken" those relationships we neglected in pursuit of honor are the strongest and best bridges to a true life of happiness and recovery there ever was or will be.
 
Bob,

Great to see you have come through this process with a good outcome from the ratings and compensation point of view. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your encouragement with others, too! That counts as "paying it forward," and I am sure that someone reading your post will take a lesson that might help them.

Best of luck in whatever comes next for you and I hope you are proud of your retirement- you earned it and deserve some good things coming your way in the future!
 
Hi all:

Thank you so much for all the support over the past year. I just wanted to post a note of encouragement that sometimes it all works out. Initial ratings were 60%/90% but they didn't rate the most severe condition.
Filed recon through MEB attorney December 9, and it was completed 4 days later!! By having the attorney connect all the dots for them, the rating went from 60/90 to 100/100 plus SMC. Permanent retirement plus VA Permanent and Total. My daughter asked if this was good - I said it depends - its a fair outcome, but I would trade it for my lungs back any day of the week.

Anyway: lessons learned:
1) Be patient - sometimes you just want to sign and run. Use the process. Think long-term.

2) Document everything. If a doc has an opinion about something, ask them to document it.

3) Don't minimize. Don't whine, but if it affects you, get some help. And they can only help if they know.

4) Know what outcome you want. If you don't know what you want, someone else will decide for you.

5) Inform yourself. The attorney was surprised about what I knew about the process, and the VARR request was a 50/50 effort. I was surprised at the knowledge gaps various "officials" had in the process, and what you don't know can hurt you. This board is a wealth of knowledge and ha served me exceptionally well.

6) Use all the resources available - especially the MEB attorneys. They are the only ones in the process who are formally "on your side".

7) Plan for your future while you wait. The rest of your life is a long time.

8) Friends and Family. Little else matters in the long run.

Didn't mean to sound preachy, but I went through every emotion imaginable during this 16 month process. These are things I learned, forgot and had to relearn. Your list is hopefully better. I plan on sticking around to help where i can, and i also want to see how some of the others issues turn out.

Happy New Year, everyone. Bob

Indeed, congratulations and definitely a Happy Holiday Season to you and your family! :D

Thus, I quite often comment that "possessing well-informed knowledge is truly a powerful equalizer."

Best Wishes!
 
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