Okay, I just got off the phone with the VA(again) and there seems to be no consensus there either. I think the safest route is to not take the severance pay. So far of all the people I have spoken with, or chatted with online, I am getting roughly equal numbers saying I will have or will not have to repay the severance. For those saying the VA will recoup the money, they are saying injuries that occurred in combat make no difference. Since Friday of last week I have probably been in contact with more than 20 people.
It seems to me, that if there is this much confusion, even if the people are correct about not recouping severance pay, there is a damn good chance that somebody in DFAS, or the VA will not have received the memo, and they will make me repay the money anyway.