Unfortunately, it is difficult for anyone here to actually offer you useful advice without actually reading the entire MEB case file, your husband's current medical records, the VA C&P exams for Graves Disease, the evidence that you submitted at the IPEB, and listening to the audio recording of the FPEB hearing. Anything offered here is merely a guess without reviewing that info. Your instincts to attempt to pursue a VARR are sound, but the VARR will need to be submitted with your election of options. If you wish to buy additional time to submit a well-prepared VARR, then you should go through the post-FPEB appeal process and then submit the VARR if (as expected) your Army PEB appeals are denied. Having good reviews in general is not proof that an attorney is familiar with the IDES process. It appears that you may be in Oregon. If so, and you truly wish to have local counsel, then Luke Miller in Salem, Oregon would be a good choice. While I understand that his present focus is on state-level administrative proceedings, he knows the IDES process and is a very good attorney- Jason and I both consider him to be a colleague in our relatively small informal bar association. Here is Luke's website:
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