Not completely true - Zomglawlz.
You will recieve a partial monthly VA check until the severance is payed back.
Well, whatever works best for you and your life is what really counts.
I'm glad to see you're thinking about all options as so many people think only short term and this really bites them in the end.
I hope all turns out well for you and yours. If your mate can get his 20 year retirement and discharge in good health, you will both have a solid base to work from through your retirement years - which will be a couple of decades to be sure!
Planning now for a future of retirement time - whether either of you work or not - whether either of you choose to work or not - is good thinking. Can't tell you how many folks out there HAVE to work until age 60 - age 65 - age 70 - due to lack of retirement funding until they reach a senior old age. By the time they can finally retire, many are too frail too fragile to really enjoy their "golden years".
At least both of you will still be young(er) than most retirees, and if you choose to work another career, you can, and will still be able to retire (again!) and be able to more fully enjoy your "golden years".
Best of luck to you and yours!
Let us know what you decide and PLEASE let us know how this severance pay/VA issue finally works out. There are a few Forum members who do take severance pay instead of fighting for their PDRL, and these questions of how it works after you sign your DA 199 does come up from time to time.
If you have time, will you let the Forum know how DFAS does your payments (lump or several checks) and how long it takes for you to get your after-tax severance paid to you? That way, when the next person asks about the timeline and how this works, you will be able to pass this along for them to read and help them out.
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Oh. I'm sure you may already know this, but both of you have VA Home Loan rights, so it is possible that you can both use your VA Home Loan rights - which is why I mentioned qualifying under separate income loans as opposed to a joint income loan. This can open up a few more doors of opportunity, too.